Productive Day

So today was a very productive day! how awesome is that?! I got so much accomplished today!!! it feels great, things that were really weighing on me have been accomplished, so thats great! I made an appointment with the florist, with the reception hall guy, booked a restaurant for the rehearsal dinner (yeah, i know... thats not supposed to be MY job... lol), with Davids bridal for flower girl dresses... and more that i think of right now!!! what a great day!

too bad my little man is sick :( he's been under the weather for the past two days... tomorrow, i might bring him to the dr's to see whats wrong. i just hate it when he's sick :/

my cousin jeffrey stopped by tto say hi, right in the middle of me making fried chicken for lunch! ugh, what a fat girl!!! oh, but it was SOOOOOOO good!! altho, ive been craving bacon ALL DAY!!

I also talked to Dan's gram today, she said that the invites looked awesome! (im not sure if i mentioned this on here, but my mom told me that her invite was smudged, and i got a little upset after all the hard work i had put into them!!)... she said that if she hadnt known that i did them myself, she would have never known, they looked SO GOOD!!! how awesome is that??!?! that made me feel great, totally worth all the work i put into them!! Dan's supposed to check his mail tomorrow and get his, i cant wait for him to see them! i addressed it exactly how i did all the others, AND included a reply card w/envelope and directions and all! i wanted him to get the FULL EFFECT when he opened it! hearing everyone got their invites really makes it official now! im so excited! of course my father has to rain on my parade though... he has to cause trouble. We cut the age off at 18 and didnt invite guests to come with single people... and of course, my father wants my nephew to come! its going to cause SO MUCH trouble if he comes, and no one else can bring their kids!! ugh! whatever, im not even going to think about it anymore tonight.

anyway though... dan has a long weekend (possibly 4days!) this weekend, because of the holiday... i really hope he has fun, but at the same time,it really makes me miss him SO MUCH MORE knowing he has all these days off in a row, and we cant take advantage of thiem and be together... :/ I had gone there at the end of march for 10days, and now im kind of regretting it, wishing we hadnt stayed so long, so that we would have the cash to go back again for this weekend... even though we intentionally went for the 10days so Dan wouldnt miss Ev's first birthday, and we could spend easter together. He was kinda bummed this past weekend, because i had to pay bills... and he wanted to put aside some extra money to go to ok city to see his wing man from BMT... at first i felt bad, because i know how much they miss eachother, and that they may not be this close to eachother again for who know how long, and i even tried to figure out a way for him to go, and gave him quite a few suggestions... and he kept saying that it was ok... even though i could tell that it "wasnt"... but then i started thinking... and i know ive posted quite a bit about how we've been fighting alot lately about how much he's been spending going out to the bar on the weekends (im not sure if i mentioned this this past weekend, but he went out AGAIN both days this past weekend!!!! when he said he wasnt going to... this time he didnt lie about it, but i still got pretty upset that he went when he said he wasnt going to... its really getting on my nerves... all i want from him is to do what he says he going to do.)... when you want to do something extra, you save up for it, you dont just go on blowing money like its going out of style, and then spend even more on a special trip! he dug this hole himself by blowing all the money he did in the past month and a half! he knew he wanted to go for a while now!!! he should have planned accordingly!

im going to leave this on a light note: my son is just about hte cutiest baby on the planet! we were watching the yanks vs sox game tonight, and i was sending updates to dan during the night, and evan looked right at the screen and there was a close up of wone of the players, and evan started waving at him and pointing!!!! it was SOOOO CUTE!!! i wish i could have gotten it on video!!! Im hoping he starts to feel better tomorrow! i ahve so much planned for this week, and i dont want to have to cancel anything, but will in a heartbeat for my little love <3 take care to my 3 followers and anyone else who reads my blog! goodnight ;)

ps. i was trying to get on the milspouse website tonight... i was going to post a topic inviting people to follow my blog, but i couldnt get on!!! i dont know if anyone else is having problems getting on the site, but i ALWAYS DO!!! oh well...